My Counselling & Me

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Our Services

General Counselling

Counselling is usually a short-term service that helps you in working through your problems or issues with the help of a qualified and trained professional.  

I provide:

  • Individual counselling
  • Corporate counselling, and
  • Face-to-face and online sessions, including visiting you.

 

Grief & Loss Counselling

I provide friendly and safe counselling. I can help you to

  • Work through your pain
  •  Come up with practical strategies to manage suffering
  • Reframe memories so that you can think about your loved one without it
    being unbearable
  •  Learn to enjoy life again, and
  • Face-to-face and online sessions, including visiting you.

 

 

LGBTIQ Counselling

I am proud to offer friendly counselling, within a safe environment to members of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and trans/gender diverse communities, including people who are intersex or identify as genderqueer, nonbinary or gender questioning.

How can I help?

I provide friendly counselling that can help you to explore and process any concerns or fears you may have about your LGBTIQ identity.

Pet Grief & Loss Counselling

I provide empathetic, warm, and safe counselling. As a passionate dog owner and lover and as a professional Grief and Loss Counsellor, I offer counselling for pet loss that includes:

  • Working through your pain
    Practical strategies to manage your suffering
  • Reframing memories so that you can think about your loved pet without it
    feeling unbearable
  • Learning to enjoy life again, and
  • Include face-to-face or online sessions, including visiting you.

End of Life Counselling

I provide support in dealing with life-limiting illnesses and conditions; drawing
upon my experience as a Registered Nurse and having worked for many years
within palliative and critical care.

I also draw upon my Academic experience,
having a Masters in Palliative Care and a Graduate Diploma in Counselling.

Relationship Counselling

Relationship counselling is usually a short-term service that helps you in working through your relationship problems or issues with the help of a qualified and trained professional.

Counselling empowers you to develop strategies, increase self-awareness and explore options and solutions. Leaving you to achieve desired outcomes and living a more fulfilled life.

 About Kim Greeve

 

I work with adults on a wide spectrum of life issues. As a counsellor, I am here to work with you and help you obtain the best results possible while working through any current issues or difficulties that you may be experiencing. Counselling is about helping you face and deal with what is current in your life in the best way possible, that is consistent with your values, beliefs and goals. I strive to support my clientele with relevant skills and strategies that will lead to preferred outcomes and tangible results.

I work with people who are feeling overwhelmed with circumstances life has thrown at them. I combine my counselling skills, palliative and critical care and advance care planning background and life experiences to help those being challenged by anything from coping with sudden onset of illness; grief and loss, through to sexuality, sexual identity and relationship difficulties. My passion for counselling is all inclusive. I work with individuals, couples, corporate and service providers.

Qualifications

 

I am a Registered Nurse and I hold a Graduate Diploma in Counselling, Masters in Palliative Care and a Bachelor of Arts in Health Care Management. My qualifications together with my life experience allow me to assist you or your organisation in the most productive and effective way.

I am registered with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) and hold membership with the Australian Counselling Association (ACA)

I am fully qualified, registered and insured.

 

My Approach

 

I am an integrative and person-centred counsellor.  I believe that every client is unique, and so I adapt my approach to suit the individual. I also believe in the value and healing power of providing a non-judgemental, empathic and accepting relationship, an experience of a relationship that many individuals may not have experienced previously.

Working integritively means that I draw upon several different modalities, approaches and techniques in my work with clients, depending on what each individual needs. The core of my training is person-centred. This means that I see the client as the expert of their own world, and that I believe they contain an inner ability to change and grow. My aim is to work collaboratively, empower and motivate you to make the changes you wish to make in life.

I focus on creating a safe, empathic, non-judgemental space in which you feel heard and accepted, and therefore able to stay with and explore things, at a deeper level than you may have felt able to previously. 

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I make an appointment?

To make an appointment you can either call 0401-596-497 or email mycounsellingandme@gmail.com 

Is counselling covered by private health?

Kim is not currently covered by private health providers. Discounts are available for pensioners and students.

Do you have EFTPOS?

Yes, EFTPOS is available. Each session is paid for at the end of the session unless prior arrangements have been made.

Counselling FAQs

What is a modality?

Modality is the term that refers to the mode or way a therapy is delivered and experienced. A therapeutic modality refers to the model used by the therapist to assist the client.

What is corporate counselling?

Services offered may include counselling for their employees that is confidential, empathetic and safe.

Who can get help from a counsellor?

Counselling is available to anyone.

What is counselling?

Counselling is the process of using different therapeutic modalities to allow an individual, couple or group to resolve a particular problem or presenting issue. Counselling is usually short-term.

Is counselling confidential?

Yes, counselling is a confidential service. Registered counsellors are governed by and adhere to a strict Code of Ethics. Confidentiality is always kept except when someone may be a serious risk or as required by law.

 

Contact Us

Kim Greeve

5 Scarborough Beach Road, NORTH PERTH WA 6006

mycounsellingandme@gmail.com

Counselling Perth

Perth Counselling is a psychological specialty that encompasses research and applied work in several broad domains: Perth counselling process and outcome; supervision and training; career development and counselling psychologists include a focus on assets and strengths, person-environment interactions, educational and career development, brief interactions, and a focus on intact personalities.

Grief Counselling Perth

 

Perth counselling psychologists are trained in graduate programs and registeres memeber of the ACA Australian Counselling Association. Most doctoral programs take 5-6 years to complete. Graduate work in Perth counselling psychology includes coursework in general psychology and statistics, counselling practice, and research. Students must complete an original dissertation at the end of their graduate training. Students must also complete a one-year full-time internship at an accredited site before earning their doctorate. In order to be licensed to practice, counselling psychologists must gain clinical experience under supervision, and pass a standardized exam.

Couples Counselling Perth

Like the models of how clients and therapists interact, there are also models of the interactions between therapists and their supervisors. Edward S. Bordin proposed a model of supervision working alliance similar to his model of therapeutic working alliance. The Integrated Development Model considers the  level of a client’s motivation/anxiety, autonomy, and self and other awareness. The System Approach to Supervision views the relationship between supervisor and supervised as most important, in addition to characteristics of the supervisor’s personal characteristics, counselling clients, training setting, as well as the tasks and functions of supervision. The Critical Events in Supervision model focuses on important moments that occur between the supervisor and supervised.

Problems can arise in supervision and training. First, supervisors are liable for malpractice (citation needed). Also, questions have arisen as far as a supervisor’s need for formal training to be a competent supervisor. Recent research suggests that conflicting, multiple relationships can occur between supervisors and clients such as that of the client, instructor, and clinical supervisor. The occurrence of racial micro-aggression against Black clients, suggests potential problems with racism in supervision. In general, conflicts between a counsellor and his or her own supervisor can arise when supervisors demonstrate disrespect, lack of support, and blaming.

Perth Grief Counselling

Perth Grief Counselling is a form of psychotherapy that aims to help people cope with the physical, emotional, social, spiritual, and cognitive responses to loss. These experiences are commonly thought to be brought on by a loved person’s death, but may more broadly be understood as shaped by any significant life-altering loss (e.g., divorce, home foreclosure, or job loss).

Perth Grief & Loss Counsellors 

Perth Grief Counsellors believe that everyone experiences and expresses grief in personally unique ways that are shaped by family background, culture, life experiences, personal values, and intrinsic beliefs. They believe that it is not uncommon for a person to withdraw from their friends and family and feel helpless; some might be angry and want to take action. Some may laugh while others experience strong regrets or guilt. Tears or the lack of crying can both be seen as appropriate expressions of grief.

Grief Counsellors Perth know that one can expect a wide range of emotion and behaviour associated with grief. Some of the Perth counsellors believe that in virtually all places and cultures, the grieving person benefits from the support of others. Further, Perth grief counsellors believe that where such support is lacking, counselling may provide an avenue for healthy resolution. Perth Grief Counsellors also believe that where the process of grieving is interrupted, for example, by the one who is grieving having to simultaneously deal with practical issues of survival or by their having to be the strong one who is striving to hold their family together, grief can remain unresolved and later resurface as an issue for counselling.

Perth Grief Counselling is commonly recommended for individuals who experience difficulties dealing with a personally significant loss. Perth grief counselling facilitates expression of emotion and thought about the loss, including their feeling sad, anxious, angry, lonely, guilty, relieved, isolated, confused, or numb.

Cousellor Perth 

There are various types of grief that individuals might go through.

Perth anticipatory grief refers to a sense of loss before the actual occurrence of loss. This can occur when a loved one has a terminal illness,[7] or one is personally being diagnosed with a chronic illness, or when one faces the imminent loss of some human function.

Grief Couselling

Perth normal grief is the natural experience of loss and emotions accompanies the death of a loved one, and usually subsides in intensity over time.

Loss Counsellling

Perth grief that is prolonged and resultant in severe behavioural concerns such as suicidal ideation, addictions, risk-taking behaviour, or displaying symptoms of mental health concerns. In these situations, more in-depth counselling and psychotherapy would be important in helping the individual recover from the traumatic loss.

Mental health plan Perth 

Perth disenfranchised grief is grief that is not made known to others, such as in the case of a young mother who aborts her child without the knowledge of her parents or others. Another example can be in the case of an extramarital lover whose lover passed on. In these cases, the grieving process is compromised as they are unable to process through this grief with others and receive the social support they need to overcome their grief.

Perth Grief Counselling Services

Perth Grief Counselling facilitates the process of coming to terms with the loss that the individual has experienced, and processing through the natural progression of feelings that might come with different stages of coping with the loss. Perth grief counselling sessions also encompass segments on increasing an individual’s personal and social resources to cope better with grief.

Perth Death Counselling

Death is inevitable. Yet, the loss of a loved one always produces strong emotions of grief and despair. The pain can be extremely overwhelming and it can last a long time. Just as you feel like life has returned to normal, something reminds you of your loved one and the intense, heart-breaking anguish returns.

Grief can be caused by many things besides the death of a loved one. It is also normal to grieve when a pet dies or when going through a divorce. These events can be just as devastating for some people as the death of a family member. 1

For most people, grief will let go eventually. But, sometimes, mental pain and anguish won’t relent. When grief doesn’t go away, it is known as persistent complex bereavement disorder (complicated grief). In persistent complex bereavement disorder, the emotional symptoms are so severe and deeply-rooted that you have trouble moving on from the loss and living your own life.

Perth Loss Counselling:

Loss is not just about death. It can refer to a wide range of changes or life events. This could be the loss of a relationship, friendship, job, property or your health.

The loss may leave you struggling to cope with uncertainty, change and the feeling of a lack of control of your situation.

You may feel a range of emotions, such as anger, shock, guilt and grief.

A Glasgow-based counsellor, says: “Loss can leave you feeling fragile and as if your world has been completely uprooted. It may leave you questioning yourself.”

Perth loss counselling can help and support you through this difficult period of your life.

Counsellor adds: “Counselling can give you an objective perspective and a safe space where you can say anything. It can you help to feel yourself again.”

How can loss affect your mental health?

Loss can have a profound impact on your life and your mental health and wellbeing in a variety of ways. The feeling of uncertainty and lack of control can affect your thoughts, emotions and behaviour. This can sometimes cause difficulties in your day to day life.

Counsellor adds: “Some of my clients who have been affected by loss have seen a marked increase in their stress levels, some have had panic episodes. Many have gone through a range of emotions.”

It can leave people feeling as if their lives are spiralling out of control.

Sometimes people turn to unhealthy behaviours, such as excessive drinking, to try to deal with their loss. This can cause further problems in their lives.

How to cope with loss?

As experiencing a loss may make you feel that you don’t have control of your life, Perth loss counselling can help to do things to make you feel more in control. This may help you to gain a sense of stability.

Counsellor says: “As a counsellor I help people look at the ‘here and now’ and focus on what they can control, rather than what they can’t control.”

“It’s good to break things down into small measurable pieces, rather than feel overwhelmed by your whole situation.”

Maintaining a routine and focusing on smaller goals can help give you a sense of purpose.

Counsellor recommends breathing exercises and meditation to help you focus on the present. Physical exercise and yoga can also help.

How can counselling help with loss?

Talking to a Perth professional counsellor can help you understand your feelings about your situation and support you in how to overcome loss.

Perth Loss Counselling can help you find strategies or techniques that work for you.

“A counsellor is there for you and they listen to you. They don’t judge. It’s a safe, calm space,” says Counsellor.

“You don’t have to protect your family from what you’re feeling. You can just be you. You can feel free.”

Counsellor adds: “Many people who have experienced a loss have so much going on in their lives. They are struggling to make sense of it all, they do not have that time to process or reflect on what is happening. Counselling gives you that.”

Perth sexuality counselling

Sexual wellbeing is a universal human right – everyone deserves a fulfilling, healthy sex life. Intimate sexual relationships with others are an important part of adult life, and have the potential to be amongst the most rewarding aspects of our lives. If we’re happy with our sex lives, we’re often happy in other areas of life too.

Society – particularly the media – seems sex-obsessed at times. There are thousands of articles online offering tips and tricks to improve your sex life, and we’re constantly being bombarded with images and ideals of perfect bodies, perfect partners, and perfect sex. Yet when our sex lives don’t measure up to those impossible media standards, people can feel embarrassed about seeking help.

Around 43% of men and 35% of women experience sexual dysfunction at some point in their lives. Yet many people report feeling hesitant about accessing help for sexual difficulties – which is a shame, because in a recent study involving 365 couples, sex therapy resolved the presenting issue for 65% of clients (of the other 35%, sexual functioning was impaired by physical illness, yet the majority of those couples still reported increased sex and intimacy satisfaction). Confidential sexuality counselling can address a range of sexual concerns quickly and effectively, freeing you to enjoy your sex life to its fullest.

Perth Sex Counselling for couples

Couples commonly experience sexual difficulties at one point or another during their relationship. When sex becomes dissatisfying for one or both partners, it can have a disastrous impact on your relationship and life in general. Sexual difficulties may be the result of a whole host of psychological, physical or relationship factors. Sex therapy for couples approaches concerns holistically by addressing both the symptoms of the sexual issues, and underlying causes.

Common sexual problems for couples include:

  • Mismatched libidos
  • Loss of interest or desire
  • Sexual dissatisfaction
  • Lack of emotional intimacy
  • Performance anxiety
  • Infidelity
  • Sexual boredom
  • Compulsive sexual behaviours
  • Sexual satisfaction involves love, lust, connection, fun, passion, enjoyment and pleasure…

Many couples do not know how to communicate their sexual desires with their partner, or they feel like they’re in the dark about the best ways to have a deeply satisfying sexual experience. Life Supports sex and intimacy counselling can shine a light on those areas of your sex life that need improvement, and give you the tools to create the sex life you desire.

Perth psychologists and counsellors frequently see one member of a couple for individual sex and intimacy counselling – this can be a really effective way to address individual concerns within a relationship. However, if your partner is insisting that you attend counselling by yourself to address a sexual issue you’re experiencing, Perth sex counselling actively encourage you to consider attending together. It takes two to tango, and sexual concerns affecting a relationship can be successfully addressed with the full participation and support of both partners.

Perth individual sex and intimacy counselling:

Whether you’re in a relationship or single, Perth sexuality counselling can improve your body image, self-esteem, and sexual confidence. Perth sex therapy has many facets – you can explore your feelings and thoughts around sex and intimacy, and address any physiological symptoms or sexual behaviours that are causing you concern.

Common reasons individuals seek Perth sexuality counselling include:

  • Seeking to improve sexual performance
  • Infidelity issues
  • Body image concerns
  • Orgasmic difficulties
  • Sexual pain
  • Premature or delayed ejaculation
  • Erection problems
  • Anxiety caused by sexual inexperience
  • Past sexual trauma

Perth sexuality counselling is a strictly talk-based therapy. Although there is no physical contact during a session, a Perth counsellor or psychologist may give you take-home exercises to practice by yourself or with your partner. These tasks may include sensate focus, communication exercises and/or physical activities for you to explore. The focus of Perth sexuality counselling is to increase your sexual wellbeing and authentically intimate connection to yourself and other people.

Perth sex and intimacy counsellors and psychologists:

Sex and sexuality issues can impact greatly on both your personal wellbeing, and the quality of your sexual relationship. Perth sex therapy and sexuality counsellors are trained to help you identify and address these issues. Perth counsellors and psychologists offer an open-minded, confidential forum for you and/or your partner, to help you better understand the issues you are currently facing. They will encourage you to find new ways to manage those issues, and make the changes required to enhance your relationships with others and yourself.